How tennis builds character: Tips and reflections

We had the extraordinary Jim Loehr Ph.D. as a special guest on a recent webinar, where he discussed how tennis can be used as a vehicle for juniors and young adults to develop ethical and moral character. When making decisions while coaching or parenting a junior, keeping that idea in mind can assist in nurturing a life-long love of tennis in them. Some reflections from the webinar are below.

1. Using character as the scorecard. Dr. Loehr discussed the importance of developing character in the child rather than focusing on a win as a determinant of success. A child's healthy ethical and moral development provides a way for the child to navigate life’s many curveballs and experiences.
2. Fun: If an activity is fun, a child is likely to continue it. Making tennis fun enables a child to learn new skills in an enjoyable environment, thus likely creating a sense of confidence and self-esteem in your child. 
3. Stay positive. Being negative has no benefits. Criticizing a child will not maximize their potential; it will inhibit it. Encouraging and validating a child is more likely to enhance a child's sense of self and happiness.
4. Connecting with others: Having a balance in life is essential for the healthy overall well-being of the child. Spending time with friends outside of the sport can increase a child’s desire to play the sport, as well as improve and maintain their mental health.